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Thoughts from an LGBTQ Therapist and Psychic Medium


Why Workaholics Anonymous Might Be the Support You Didn't Know You Needed
When most people think of support groups, Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) often comes to mind. While it's one of the most recognized 12-step...
Brian Sharp
Feb 64 min read
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The Dangers of Avoidance Coping: Why It's Not the Answer for Managing Depression and Anxiety
Depression and anxiety can weigh heavily on our lives, making even the simplest tasks feel daunting. How we respond to these emotions is...
Brian Sharp
Feb 64 min read
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Is 'Shoulding' on Yourself Making You Miserable? REBT Offers a Refreshing Perspective
Have you ever found yourself caught in self-judgment, thinking things like, “I should exercise more” or “I should be more productive”?...
Brian Sharp
Feb 54 min read
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Is 'Musturbation' Getting in the Way of Your Happiness? Let's Break It Down with REBT
Understanding Our Inner Critic In our quest for happiness, many of us impose unrealistic expectations on ourselves and others. This...
Brian Sharp
Feb 54 min read
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Living La Vida LGBTQ: An Unconventional Journey as a Therapist and Spirit Medium in Mexico
Moving to a new country is a life-changing decision. For some, it's a compelling adventure that leads to a more fulfilling existence. As...
Brian Sharp
Feb 54 min read
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Unveiling the Transformative Power of Adversity: A Journey Towards Spiritual and Psychological Resilience in Mental Health Counseling & Mediumship
Life presents us with endless challenges that can often feel overwhelming. Each hurdle carries unique lessons that guide us toward...
Brian Sharp
Feb 54 min read
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The FDA's Black Box Warning List: Navigating Antidepressant Warnings with Your Doctor
Mental health is a critical part of overall well-being. For many people, antidepressants are essential in managing depression and...
Brian Sharp
Feb 54 min read
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What to Know About Outpatient Alcohol Treatment Options: Understanding ICD-10 and DSM-5 Criteria for Alcohol Use Disorder
Alcohol use disorder (AUD) affects millions of people and comes with various challenges. Individuals face unique circumstances that can...
Brian Sharp
Feb 54 min read
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Uncovering Emotional Abuse: Signs to Watch for in Your Relationship, a Test for Emotional Abuse and How to Safely Exit
Emotional abuse can creep into relationships quietly, often disguised as love or concern. If you find yourself questioning the foundation...
Brian Sharp
Feb 55 min read
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Challenging the Unpredictable: A Therapist's Journey with Radical Acceptance in the Face of a Loved One's HIV Diagnosis
Living alongside someone we love who is facing a chronic illness can bring about a whirlwind of emotions. This journey often takes us...
Brian Sharp
Feb 45 min read
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Navigating the Challenges of HIV Medication: A Gay Therapist's Advice on Coping with Biktarvy Side Effects
Living with HIV can feel overwhelming at times, especially when dealing with the side effects of antiretroviral medications like...
Brian Sharp
Feb 34 min read
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The Unspoken Truth: A Gay Therapist Discusses Why Some Individuals Choose Infidelity Over Ending Relationships
Infidelity can create a storm of emotional upheaval in relationships. As a gay therapist specializing in the Gottman Method, I've seen...
Brian Sharp
Feb 34 min read
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Unmasking the Power of Small Acts: A Couples Therapist Discusses How Gratitude Can Transform Superficial Interactions in Relationships
Do you ever feel as if your daily interactions with your partner have turned into a monotonous routine? Many couples describe their...
Brian Sharp
Feb 24 min read
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From Stuttering John to Fearless Speaker: Embracing the Freedom of Not Giving a Damn
I remember being teased throughout childhood—referred to as “stuttering John.” Those taunts still echo in my mind. Being the target of...
Brian Sharp
Feb 25 min read
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Are We Sabotaging Ourselves? A Gay Therapist's Take on Breaking Free from Avoidance Coping
Avoidance coping strategies, like procrastination and people-pleasing, often feel like a comforting escape from anxiety. They provide a...
Brian Sharp
Feb 24 min read
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Hacks for Stress-Free Tax Season: How to Tackle Financial Worries without the Drama
Tax season can bring on a wave of anxiety for many. Just mentioning it often elicits groans and sighs. The deadlines, the forms, the...
Brian Sharp
Feb 24 min read
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The Dangers of Self-Diagnosing Mental Health: Insights from a Gay Therapist
In today's fast-paced digital world, information about mental health is just a click away. While this access can feel empowering, it also...
Brian Sharp
Feb 24 min read
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Surviving Antidepressants: Navigating Concerns and Communicating with Prescribers
Antidepressants can significantly enhance mental health for many people, but they often come with challenges, particularly in the form of...
Brian Sharp
Feb 23 min read
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The Gay Therapist's Guide to Overcoming Past Horror Stories and Achieving Real Progress in Months, Not Years
Have you ever felt frustrated by therapy that seems to stretch on indefinitely with little result? You're not alone. Many individuals,...
Brian Sharp
Feb 24 min read
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Unveiling the Silent Alarm: Understanding the Significance of Passive Suicidal Thoughts in Emotional Health
Grasping the Importance of Passive Suicidal Thoughts Thoughts of suicide or self-injury can be alarm bells that signal deeper emotional...
Brian Sharp
Feb 24 min read
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