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Thoughts from an LGBTQ Therapist and Psychic Medium


Brian Sharp
Feb 155 min read
Breaking Free from External Validation: The Illusion of Needing Approval from Everyone
Have you ever felt that your worth hinges on others' approval? This common struggle runs deep in our human nature. The desire to be liked...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 154 min read
Is "Musturbation" Holding You Back? How to Overcome Dr. Albert Ellis' Three "Musts" for Greater Peace of Mind
Understanding our thoughts and behaviors can be a challenging journey. One significant concept in this exploration is Dr. Albert Ellis's...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 154 min read
The Silent Killers of Relationships: Understanding and Overcoming Gottman's 'Four Horsemen'
In every relationship, challenges can arise that threaten connection and satisfaction. One of the most harmful patterns identified by...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 154 min read
Are You Sabotaging Your Relationship? The Dangerous Effects of Negative Sentiment Override Explained
Negative sentiment override may sound technical, but its impact on romantic relationships is profound. As a gay therapist trained in the...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 124 min read
Is Your 'Awfulizing' Making You Miserable? How Albert Ellis' Thoughts Can Help You Navigate Life's Challenges
Life's challenges can often feel overwhelming, especially during tough times marked by anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 124 min read
"Why Marriages Succeed or Fail"--Why this Relationship Book is the Secret to a Happier, Healthier Love Life
In today's world, relationships are often discussed more openly, especially within the LGBT community. Finding the right resources to...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 84 min read
Can a Gay Therapist Help Me Even Though I'm Straight? A Surprising Answer from a Licensed Professional
Therapy can feel like a lifeline—a safe space where you can unpack your thoughts, emotions, and hurdles. However, if you're straight and...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 84 min read
Why Therapy with Insurance Can be a Total Headache - Exploring the Downside of Using Insurance for Therapy
When it comes to therapy, many people often assume that using their insurance is the best way to make mental health care affordable....
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Brian Sharp
Feb 74 min read
Can Hypnosis Really Help You Sleep? The Surprising Reason REBT Skills Might Be Your Best Bet
Sleep is essential for our health. Yet, millions of people struggle to get enough restful sleep. Among the various techniques promising...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 74 min read
Why Stopping Xanax Cold Turkey Is a No-Go – Here's What Could Happen
Xanax, a widely used medication for anxiety and panic disorders, offers calming effects that can help individuals regain control over...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 74 min read
Is Your Unchecked Anxiety Turning into Hidden Anger? The Surprising Link You Need to Know About
Anxiety is a common experience for many. It can arise from work pressures, personal relationships, or the fast pace of modern life. This...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 75 min read
How To Recognize and Seek Help for Avoidant Personality Disorder: A Professional Perspective and Brief, Informal Test
Understanding personality disorders can initially feel daunting. Many people associate these conditions with negative traits or...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 64 min read
Why Workaholics Anonymous Might Be the Support You Didn't Know You Needed
When most people think of support groups, Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) often comes to mind. While it's one of the most recognized 12-step...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 64 min read
The Dangers of Avoidance Coping: Why It's Not the Answer for Managing Depression and Anxiety
Depression and anxiety can weigh heavily on our lives, making even the simplest tasks feel daunting. How we respond to these emotions is...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 54 min read
Is 'Shoulding' on Yourself Making You Miserable? REBT Offers a Refreshing Perspective
Have you ever found yourself caught in self-judgment, thinking things like, “I should exercise more” or “I should be more productive”?...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 54 min read
Is 'Musturbation' Getting in the Way of Your Happiness? Let's Break It Down with REBT
Understanding Our Inner Critic In our quest for happiness, many of us impose unrealistic expectations on ourselves and others. This...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 54 min read
Living La Vida LGBTQ: An Unconventional Journey as a Therapist and Spirit Medium in Mexico
Moving to a new country is a life-changing decision. For some, it's a compelling adventure that leads to a more fulfilling existence. As...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 54 min read
Unveiling the Transformative Power of Adversity: A Journey Towards Spiritual and Psychological Resilience in Mental Health Counseling & Mediumship
Life presents us with endless challenges that can often feel overwhelming. Each hurdle carries unique lessons that guide us toward...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 54 min read
The FDA's Black Box Warning List: Navigating Antidepressant Warnings with Your Doctor
Mental health is a critical part of overall well-being. For many people, antidepressants are essential in managing depression and...
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Brian Sharp
Feb 54 min read
What to Know About Outpatient Alcohol Treatment Options: Understanding ICD-10 and DSM-5 Criteria for Alcohol Use Disorder
Alcohol use disorder (AUD) affects millions of people and comes with various challenges. Individuals face unique circumstances that can...
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